This will be quick.
I know that the reality is that President Elect Trump will not be able to make many large legislative changes to our countries laws. Congress has proven for the past 6 years that they are more than capable of completely shutting down the legislative process, and I do not doubt that the moderate and level headed members of our House and Senate will insure that he does not do long term damage to the majority of our legacy laws and policies. Our checks and balances will work.
There are those in our country that have now been given permission to openly voice their hatred and their bigotry for anyone that does not fit their ideas of what an American is. Our policies may not change, but the day to day lives of women, people of color, LGBTQA, Muslims and Jews are now changed. We now live in a country who voted for a man that has talked repeatedly about how little he thinks of these groups. Whether or not he personally believes these things, and I think we can all agree how much he hates women at a minimum, he has created an environment where this is acceptable in the public sphere. Policies may not change, but the atmosphere in our country will, and that takes significantly longer to change.
I think that might be my greatest frustration with some of those people who speak like there would have been no great difference between Hillary and Trump, because there is a huge difference between a Clinton and a Trump presidency. It is the tone, it is how we are perceived in the world, it is how we deal with those around us, and it is how the next four years of the lives of the minority are affected.
I have fears as to what this means for me, as a women in uniform, as a service member generally. “He will surround himself with qualified advisors” is not comforting to me. We have become more involved in conflicts around the world with a President that promised to end our involvement in the two wars we were in when he entered office, we are still in both countries, and we have expanded.
Will I wallow in despair? Fuck no! I will continue to do my job, live my life, and do everything in my power to improve my community and country. I will focus on protecting the rights of my fellow human beings, and using what privilege I have to make sure they are as safe as I can make them.
But please don’t sit there and pretend that this election, and these results mean the same as if we had elected a highly qualified, incredibly competent women, that was a career politician. That some how our country is slightly better off than if Clinton was elected, that this result will inspire our country to get off their asses and fight for change (it very might do that, but how long will it take to heal the damage done from four years of Trump). And for fucks sake, don’t tell me to calm down, that it won’t be that bad, that I am over reacting.
Do speak to those who are scared, and discount their fear. You are not providing them comfort, even if you feel that is what your are trying to do, you are telling them that their concerns are not important. You are telling us, those of us that are scared and terrified about how these next four years will shape our lives, how these next four years will permanently change who we are, that these fears are not real. That is not helpful. Offering us a shoulder, an ear, and unlimited support is what we need. Promising to be there with us, and for us, through whatever may come, that is helpful.
So, for all those POC, LGBTQA, Muslims, Jewish, Service members and Veterans, sexual assault victims and survivors, and all of those other groups or individuals who are unsure of, and or scared of what is to come next. I am with you, I love you, I support you, and we will endure this together. We will continue to fight for a country where all are accepted, loved and protected. Some of us while in uniform, and with our lives, and some of us in many other ways.